Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Dear Jordan Chandler


Dear Jordan Chandler,

Dear Jordan Chandler,
I wonder if you have come across a letter on the internet, a dedication to you and in your name where a malicious Michael Jackson fan disparages yourself and your father? I'm sure that, if you have surfed online, you will have stumbled upon it at some point.
When I read it I found that I was, like its writer, almost at a loss for words. However, my stunned silence stemmed more from my outrage and shock than from any kind of malice. You see, Jordan, I and millions of others the world over DO believe your story.
We are sorry for what happened to you and your family. We are so sorry that your innocence was taken away and that your life was forced to change in such a drastic manner. We are sorry that your childhood was not the sweet experience that it should have been. And today we are sorry that you are still subjected to this witch hunt by Michael Jackson fans who feel that he was innocent purely because they like his music. 
Did you know that the writer of this letter was not even that great a fan until his death? Did you know that she lived only two hours away from Neverland and didn't even think to visit there until he had died? I'm sure that any real fan would have wanted to call when he lived there, wouldn't they? I tell you this because it seems to me that this woman has had her 'heart' strings tugged by the death of Michael Jackson and has subsequently lost all logic, all self respect and most of all, has lost all respect for the victims of sexual abuse.
Her letter mentions the fact that your father "destroyed the very foundation of everything that Michael was and everything that he stood for". No, Jordan - Michael did that all by himself.
She talks about how he was a "man with a spirit as innocent as a newborn kitten, and a heart that was simply too big for his body".  Please know that this isn't the way that most people view him.
Her letter, her pathetic, soppy, plea to you to bring her comfort by telling her that her idol was, in fact, one of the good guys says a great deal. Most of all, what it tells me is that, in her heart of hearts, she knows the truth.
Relax safe in the knowledge that as she knows this truth, so do most other people.
When I read her letter her arrogance astounded me. How dare she tell you what you should do with the compensation or 'hush' money you received. Who does this woman think she is to tell a child, now a man, what he should do with the money that kept his molester out of jail? And she also tells you that, if you tell the world that it was a lie, that you will be forgiven. You have done nothing to be forgiven for. You were a child in a man's world and the adult who touched you is the one who should have sought that forgiveness.
Her letter ends by appealing to you to 'come clean', admit that Michael did not touch you inappropriately and to 'make that change'. You need do nothing. There are some changes that need to be made, for sure. The starting place would be with the writer of that horrendous letter - the one who is so star struck and twisted in her logic that she has no consicence over her words. 

So Laura, if you're reading... Make that change.  It’s gonna feel real good.

1 comment:

  1. I can assure you that he was NOT a pedophile. He loved children, but not in a sick way. Is it so wrong that a man cares about a child who is not his own? We don't have enough love in this world, and it's because of people like you who apparently think it's wrong to care about a young person with cancer.

    On June 29, 2009, Jordan Chandler, the child who charged Michael Jackson of "indecency" towards him, admitted it to be all fake and just for the money. Jordan's father, Evan Chandler, did not approve of the relationship between his son and Michael and pushed Jordan to lie about the charges made towards MJ. But after Michael passed, Jordan admitted that it was all for money. I guess some people just have to sell their class to make some money from hard-working celebrities...

    Michael Jackson was best friends with MacCaulay Culkin in the late 1980's and early 1990's... Mac was about the same age as Jordan was when Jordan accused MJ, but Mac said Michael never did anything wrong towards him. And so did many other children who Michael became close with.

    On the day Michael passed, Uri Geller, an old time friend of Michael, said he knew for a fact that Michael never molested any children... Before Michael's death, he performed a hypnosis on Michael regarding a different issue, and while Michael's mind was in the state of trance, he asked him about the molestation case, and found that Michael did not molest any children.

    Gavin Arvizo told his school administrator that Michael never did molest him; and that's on record.

    And what's wrong with hanging around young children? That's what starts it for people... He didn't get to see the exciting parts of being a kid, because he was in the studio all day at the age of 5. He had to work, and that's what made him the amazing star he is. At just 5 years old he wasn't able to just go to the park to play, or go to the mall to shop, because being as big as he was, people would crowd around him and ask him for an autograph or a picture. He built Neverland to regain the childhood that he missed out on. He invited these children into his home for free. It was a wonderful and loving thing. People need to realize that.

    If you don't know him, or if you haven't researched enough on him, then don't judge him. He was an innocent man. He minded his own business, and the tabloid press barge into his life and make rumors about him. His whole entire life this happened to him. He just wanted privacy, and he never got it. People like you made his life a living Hell.

    Just leave him alone and move on with your life. He doesn't nearly deserve the crap people say about him.

    YOU need to make that change, ma'am.

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